In a world frequently torn apart by conflict, disaster, and despair, where the evening news seems like a relentless cascade of bad tidings, it’s easy to feel disheartened. But as we edge towards Thanksgiving and the holiday season—a time symbolic of joy, reflection, and community—it’s crucial to remember that this period offers us a unique opportunity. It’s a chance to come together, to find solace in our shared humanity, and to kindle a light of hope that can guide us through the darkest times, regardless of our faith or background.
We spoke with Rabbi Daniel Cohen, senior Rabbi of Congregation Agudath Sholom in Stamford, Connecticut for his vision of what this season of giving can mean for each of us together, particularly during very difficult times. The following is what he had to say:
“Holidays across various cultures and religions—whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, Diwali, Kwanzaa, or Eid—primarily focus on themes of light, renewal, and the triumph of good over evil. This thematic commonality is a reminder that at our core, we yearn for the same things: peace, understanding, and a brighter future. By focusing on what unites us, rather than what divides us, we can forge a sense of universal community.
It is now, when things seem darkest, that empathy and kindness are more important than ever. When the world fixates on the things that tear us apart, Thanksgiving and the holiday season implores us to remember our common humanity. Sharing stories, meals, or acts of charity not only enriches our own lives but bridges gaps between cultures and communities. Every act of kindness, no matter how small, is a step towards a more harmonious world.”
Rabbi Cohen went on to say, “The holidays provide a perfect backdrop for learning about and from each other. Engaging with traditions and stories from cultures different from our own can be an eye-opening experience. It fosters mutual respect and broadens our understanding of the world. Community events, cultural festivals, and religious observances are often open to all, offering a window into the hearts and minds of others.
Beyond the festivities, this season is also a time for reflection. It’s a moment to step back and ponder our place in the larger tapestry of life. Regardless of our religious beliefs, taking time to meditate, pray, or simply sit in quiet reflection can provide peace and clarity in a chaotic world. This introspection can also be a source of strength and renewal, helping us face challenges with a renewed sense of purpose.
Simple gestures of kindness—a smile to a stranger, a thoughtful gift, or a heartfelt compliment—can have far-reaching effects. In a world often shrouded in negativity, these acts of goodwill are rays of light. They remind others (and ourselves) that goodness and warmth still exist and are worth celebrating.”
It is with all of this in mind that the Stamford, Connecticut Kindness Project was born. The Stamford Kindness Project serves as a shining example of how local initiatives can foster a sense of togetherness and hope in challenging times. This project centers around simple yet profound acts of kindness—encouraging residents to engage in compassionate deeds that range from sharing inspirational messages in public spaces to performing random acts of kindness for strangers.
Spearheaded by Rabbi Daniel Cohen and Congregation Agudath Sholom along with Mayor Caroline Simmons and the City of Stamford, schools, businesses, and community groups have all joined in, creating a ripple effect of goodwill throughout the community.
“In the midst of all the events happening in our world, now is the perfect time for the Stamford Kindness Project,” said Mayor Caroline Simmons. “Kindness has no boundaries and doesn’t discriminate based on race, religion, or social status. It’s a universal language that can unite people and transcend our differences, creating a ripple effect beyond our immediate surroundings. I’m excited to see how kind our City of Stamford can be.”
The initiative underscores the idea that every individual has the power to make a positive impact. By placing emphasis on empathy, connection, and selfless giving, the Stamford Kindness Project not only brightens individual lives but also strengthens the communal fabric, reminding us all that even the smallest gesture of kindness can be a powerful catalyst for change and unity.
The official kickoff for the event is Friday, November 3, 2023 at 9:30 a.m. Eastern Time in the Stamford Government Center Lobby at 888 Washington Boulevard in Stamford, CT. The event will include remarks from Mayor Simmons, Dr. Tamu Lucero, Superintendent of Stamford Public Schools, and Rabbi Daniel Cohen, senior Rabbi of Congregation Agudath Sholom, who will lead a discussion from his book, “What Will They Say About You When You Are Gone: Living a Life of Legacy,” and provide inspirational ideas for speaking kindness.
Stamford challenges all of us to come together in our own lives, families, and communities this Thanksgiving and throughout the holiday season. We must carry forward this spirit of unity and hope so that we can create a world of peace, joy, and boundless hope.
Popular motivator, mentor, and inspirational speaker, Rabbi Daniel Cohen’s unique blend of authenticity, humor, wisdom, and insight helps anyone better navigate contemporary society and lead a life of legacy. Rabbi Cohen has served in the rabbinate for over twenty years and is the author of What Will They Say About You When You Are Gone? Creating a Life of Legacy, and his newest book, The Secret of the Light.
